My ex husband has asked me to meet him “to talk about the children”.
The meeting is tonight.
I am shitting myself.
I really hope it’s not as bad as I think it might be and that we can find a way through all the mess without talking about his new wife or Builder Bloke or finances or new schools…..
I am going to try and be reasonable and open. To try not to get into any arguments and to hope that we can be grown up enough to discuss our children without anger or blame.
We are parents of three gorgeous children who ultimately only want the best for them. Lets hope this shines through.
My friend told me that I need to say “WE” a lot and possibly mention “in the best interests of the children” if required.
Wish me luck x
Chris
August 22, 2010Good Luck, stay calm. Might not be as bad as you think. Keep to the agenda only talk about your children no other business allowed. xx
Family Affairs
August 22, 2010Think will bring an agenda and take minutes!! Lx
Eclipse
August 22, 2010Best of luck! Keep calm and do your best to rise above any agro. Don’t forget the finances are ultimately for the children if it ends up in that territory too 🙂 x
Family Affairs
August 22, 2010Thanks Claire – I will try my hardest!! Lx
Lucia
August 22, 2010Really hope it’s going ok. Been reading your blog a little while and can see you are a fab mum.
Jill
August 22, 2010Good luck! Don’t let him suck you into anything other then what is on your agenda!
Laura
August 22, 2010Hope it went okay L. Thinking of you xx
Miranda
August 23, 2010xxxx
Hope it went okay
janelle
August 23, 2010oh been thinking about ya darlin’…hope it all went ok???? xxx j
fdx
August 23, 2010hope it all went ok.
Mad
August 23, 2010Hope you survived yesterday and that things are now on a better course for you and the family.
Mad x